Dating

7 Essential Dating Tips for Every Women

When it comes to dating, we all do mistakes, big mistakes with awful results. Such mistakes happen because of the general circumstances or lack of knowledge. Obviously, the tips which can help a young woman in her teens or 20s dates are not the same for those for a woman in her 30s and 40s. Additionally, we learn more when we grow up, so women in their 30s and 40s know much more about dating than the younger ones.

For these reasons, we gathered some tips which may help women in their 30s and 40s dating to have a successful dating which can lead to something more serious.

7 Essential Dating Tips For you:


1- Determine your non-negotiables.


We know that a healthy relationship need some compromisations, but there are few stuffs which are non-negotiables like those related to character traits, personality type, and value systems like a smoker, a non-monogamist, a cat-lover, etc.

2- Don’t put many limits


When you were younger, you rejected men for many reasons like being married before or having a child. However, when a man is in his 40s, there is  a a higher probability of being married or having kids.  So if you are serious about this relation, stay open.

موضوعات ذات صلة

 

3- Pay attention to the weird signs


Sometimes, you just feel that something is wrong. Whenever you recognise that your date is not able to answer simple questions directly or acting weirdly, or trying to hide some info about himself or his family, don’t hesitate to tell him that. In this stage, he may give you a good reason or you have to say goodbye forever. Take care as these are signs for unhealthy relationship.


4- Know who you are as a person.


That’s true, before trying to find what is going on inside your boyfriend’s mind, you have to be sure of what there is inside yours. This may be a complex tip, but building strength, determining your needs and having enough self-confidence are the key. On the other hand, knowing who you are and how you want to be treated will not give anyone a chance to continually hurt or discourage you.


5-Don’t lie or inflate the truth.


Whether you are 20, 30 or 40, you wanna impress your date, but honestly you are not too young anymore to pretend being something other than what you really are. In your next date, make sure to avoid any kind of lies and just show your real image. From the first moment, give an accurate description of yourself to avoid a relationship with deceptions.

6- Don’t care about texting and calling rules.

 

We all know the rules of texting and calling like “wait your boyfriend to call you first, wait 3 days to call him back, never send a message except if your boyfriend texted you first, etc”. However, such rules cannot be applied anymore.

Looking to your boyfriend and your love relation like a challenge, means that one or both of you will lose at the end. If you miss your date just call him.


7. Forget the past


Maybe you went through many fruitless relationships which turned out to be a waste of time, but this is not an excuse to expect the same from all your relationships. Just forget about it, open your heart and let’s start again. It is not easy, especially that you don’t want to get hurt again, but your new date deserves at least one chance.

موضوعات ذات صلة

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

Back to top button